As some of you may already know, I spent some time at the end of last year in the beautiful Palm Springs for Tony Robbins’ Date With Destiny Event. Before I went out there, the only feedback I’d hear about it is “its fantastic!”, but no one actually tells you what it is all about. So I thought I would share one of the many insights that the event offers
This one is the secret that makes a man or a woman instantly magnetic, (particularly to the opposite sex!), but works just as well on clients…
So what’s the secret?
At the risk of sounding like I’m going back to caveman times, its all to do with masculinity and femininity i.e. men, ladies like you to behave like men and ladies, men like you NOT to be afraid of your femininity. If you’re in a gay relationship, your core energy (i.e. masculine or feminine) may not necessarily be the same as your sex, so this theory works for you too (I’m using the terms “man” and “women” for ease
My favourite example of this in action is the old movie “Working Girl”. You can watch its trailer here:
Melanie Griffiths is the classic feminine woman, not afraid to look and act like a woman whilst also being very smart. In the end, she gets the man too, unlike her competition Sigourney Weaver who plays the classic “masculine woman”, who ultimately just isn’t that attractive with the super male energy that she projects.
One of the best analogies I have for this is that not living in your core energy is like putting the batteries a remote control around the wrong way. There is only one way that they will work totally perfectly and that way is when they are at their harmonious opposites.
So embrace your masculinity or femininity for that INSTANT added attraction factor. No matter who the audience is, they LOVE seeing a man or woman comfortable in their core energy, so embrace it as much as you can!
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